Am I virgin or a technical virgin?

My friend insists that I am NOT a virgin because they say since I've done stuff i.e. blow job, hand job, finger bang, etc. I am a technical virgin, not a virgin. As in absence from sex at all never doing anything. And all real virgins find me to be a disgrace. What do you think? I have never had sexual intercourse ever and I am almost 38 years old.