What is NOT a bullet you dodged, but a huge tactical nuke you dodged?

Read this post in another sub, want to ask the people of Delhi.
Here's mine:
I was planning a road trip with my cousins to Haridwar and Badrinath, Had a fight with my girlfriend and was not able to go, so my cousins went without me. On their way, they met with an accident and one of my cousin ( on whose bike I was planning on being a passenger on) had the worst of it and had to have one of his leg amputated. My girlfriend saved my life LITERALLY.