WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO FIND FEMBOYS LOCALLY

How do i find other femboys near me ;-; I've tried dating apps and only found like 3 but none messaged back which sucks. I've only met really nice femboys online and one lead to an large that ended a while ago. I've had a bad time dating women and so much shit has happened that I cannot talk to a girl if I like her romantically at all.

I just freeze up and panic. But with guys? I'm calm as hell and I'm bold. I fucking hate where I live in Ohio just stuck up rich assholes and there's no local events or anything lgbtq related.

I don't go to uni as I work in the trades and that isn't very lgbtq friendly :c

(I was told to come here to get better advice as I'm 21)

How do I find local femboys/cute guys without going through the torment of dating apps?