My mother tells me that at other people's houses, when going to the bathroom, it's expected to do a "courtesy flush". Is this a real thing?

EDIT: LIKE 9000 UP VOTES AND 1.3K COMMENTS MWAHAHAHA! Is this what it feels like to start a revolution? And no, she wasn't ever in prison...at least not that I know of...

I don't live with her.. She says that while you're pooping, anywhere, you need to do a flush to get stuff down first. And then do another flush at the end with the toilet paper. She says it's out of courtesy and reduces chances of things getting dirty.

Anyways, she says you HAVE to clean the toilet every single time you go.

So here's the steps:

  1. Spray Poopurri
  2. Flush halfway through your shite session.
  3. Flush at the end again.
  4. Clean with the wand every time.

She even says specific toilets in the house are for specific forms of waste. One is for poop. One is for pee. (When I'm at her house)

Best part is she goes "your grandma taught me this". I went and asked Grandma and she goes "that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard".

Update: Guy's don't worry I respect it if someone askes me to do this stuff in their home. I said that I'm not much of a "keep the peace" kinda guy but that doesn't mean I won't respect the rules of someone else's house. And yes, I poop at others houses and will continue to do so. Refusing to poop in another's house is ridiculous and is taking social niceties way too far. It isn't rude to poop, and a good host should anticipate that their guest may need to poop.