Seeking Genuine Advice on Pleasure and Intensity
I'm a 29M, and my girlfriend and I were intimate today. It wasn't actually planned—just a small kiss that led to more, and we ended up making out. I usually kiss her a lot and all over her body, but this time, I intentionally took things slow.
While rubbing her down there, I went super slow to build up intensity. We also went down on each other, and I kept it slow there too. Then, I inserted my index finger with my palm facing up, curled it into a hook, and gently scratched the upper wall in a back-and-forth motion—slowly at first and then gradually increasing the rhythm. She got really into it, even asking me to stop, saying it was too much. But I pushed a little further, increased the speed, and took her to the peak before pulling out.
She hugged me tightly, lying on top of me, and I could feel her whole body pulsing and vibrating. It was an incredible experience. I had a similar moment a few years back with my ex when she was on my face for the first time.
Ladies, I have two questions:
Was this an orgasm?
When my girlfriend asked me to stop because it was too much, what’s the right thing to do? Should I stop right there, slow down, or push a bit further to enhance the pleasure?
We’re committed to each other and getting married this year with our families’ blessings, so I’m genuinely looking for honest advice on pleasure and intensity—no moral science lessons, please.
Thanks in advance!