Best Controller for me?

I use a Dualsense Controller normally and love it. It's feels much better in my hands than an Xbox controller does. However, a lot of games don't have the PlayStation button layout, meaning I need to download a mod or play the game with the Xbox layout. This frustrates me to no end, so I've decided I want to change it.

After a bit of research I found that 8BitDo has the best lineup of controllers that feel like Dualsense with the Xbox layout, but there's all these models like Pro 2, Ultimate, Ultimate 2C etc. so I need some help choosing. Right now it looks like the Ultimate is the best one for me, but I just wanted to double check before I buy one.

There are a few things that limit what I can and can't get.

  1. Needs to have the ABXY Xbox layout, not the switch BAYX Nintendo layout.

  2. I only play on PC and maybe Steam Deck. No Nintendo Switch or Phone.

  3. Hall Effect Joysticks would be nice so I don't have to deal with Stick Drift.

  4. I'd prefer if it felt more like a Dualsense rather than an Xbox in ergonomics as my hands aren't a good fit for the Xbox controller.

  5. This is more an optional one, but I love the back bumpers on the Ultimate 2.4GHz model, and was wondering if any controllers had something similar for my fingers at the back. While I would enjoy it, it's not essential and I can live without it.

Thanks for helping me out with this.